1. I’d add a few:

    Beware of people (especially women) who come to you looking for pity and sympathy. Especially when they drop in that they’re separated from their husband. It’s the cheaters calling card.

    Beware of people who put down others of the same sex and position. They think they’re competing.

    Beware of people who throw a sulk if you don’t reply immediately. They are testing if they can get personal.

  2. openheartconfessions

    I had an emotional affair at work and this in no way communicates my experience. This seems like it is written by someone who has in fact NOT had an affair, but imagines what might lead to one. Ditto for what Nephila wrote, this communicates her own insecurities, as opposed to reality

  3. This is a great post and reminder! Coming from a girl who knows how quickly things can get weird at work, the no touchie thing is hugely important for both men and women! Protect your marriage and your heart! Constant vigilance!

  4. This is awful and speaks to the lack of responsibility men feel to control themselves around women. Which is why women are shunned for being too revealing, for not smiling enough, for being to modest, for being “too nice” and not getting the promotion.

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