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    the pendulum effect and sinning “that grace may abound”

    / August 15, 2013 / 3 Comments

    But TRUE grace-filled living is not about doing whatever you want without care and crying "there's grace for that!" when you know what you are doing is wrong.

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    My motivation: “chosen, holy, and dearly loved”

    / August 14, 2013 / 15 Comments

    The difference between grace-filled me and former legalistic-me has very very little to do with what I do or don't do, what I abstain from and what I participate in. But it has…

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Accepting grace means letting go of your own goodness

    / August 12, 2013 / 17 Comments

    You cannot accept God's grace for your daily Christian life until you let go of your own righteousness. God's grace and your own goodness are incompatible. It's one or the other, and you…

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    “Leave it all behind…” – the moment I left legalism in my heart

    / August 11, 2013 / 10 Comments

    And so I left it all behind. All the working for His favor. All the seeking for answers. All the desiring of the acceptance of people. Because He already has what I need.…

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    “You are God, You are God, Of all else I’m letting go!”

    / August 8, 2013 / 15 Comments

    In that moment, I felt myself truly let go of “all else.” I felt myself running to his arms. Accepting his love, his peace, his forgiveness, and his grace.

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    The real me

    / August 5, 2013 / 16 Comments

    When I really grasped it, that big weight that I had been carrying around (guilt, shame, expectations, fears) just slipped off my back.

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    “Sitting on the premises” – sometimes, it’s okay not to serve in church

    / August 4, 2013 / 15 Comments

    Let's remember that while there is definitely value in serving God, sometimes, there's just as much value in "sitting on the premises."

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    There are no “entry-level positions” with God

    / August 3, 2013 / 25 Comments

    Because there are no "entry-level" positions in God's eyes. There are no ladders to climb to make us more important than another Christian.

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Safety in the comfortable cocoon of fundamentalism

    / July 29, 2013 / 20 Comments

    Leaving behind legalism is one of the most terrifying things I've ever done. And for a long time, I just couldn't do it.

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    when you and your husband are in different spiritual places

    / July 28, 2013 / 20 Comments

    For those times when you are out-of-sync spiritually with your spouse.

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