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    • 31 Days of Preparing for VBAC {An Introduction}
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    • Home preschool resources for the tired, non-creative, busy mom
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  • Start Here!
    • Hi, I’m Aprille…
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    • The Story Behind the Header
    • Blog’s Mission Statement
    • Blog Series
    • Top Ten Posts of All Time
    • Legalism and Grace: How I Left the IFB Movement and Chose Grace
    • Grace: How a Recovering Legalist Moves Forward in Faith
    • Online Writing Portfolio
  • Marriage
    • Our Love Story
  • Faith
  • Motherhood
    • Mothering Through Fatigue Blog Series
    • 20 Posts to Encourage Young New Moms
  • Military & Veteran Life
    • Encouragement and Resources for the Military Wife
    • Our final military deployment homecoming: finally together forever!
    • Homecoming 2009
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    • 31 Days of Preparing for VBAC {An Introduction}
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  • Beauty in the Mess,  Messy Faith,  Motherhood,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Order in the Mess: Bearing God’s Image as a Type-A Homemaker

    / February 13, 2020 / 0 Comments

    I am made in the image of God, and that is beautiful. Every person has within him or her the image of God. It is our role...our job as His creation to bear…

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  • A Little Princess movie snow perfectionism
    Health, Wellness, & Self Care,  Miscellaneous,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    A raw look at my never-ending war on perfectionism

    / January 15, 2019 / 1 Comment

    A week ago we sat on the counselor’s couch. I was perturbed because even after declaring to my husband, “We’re here for you,” somehow the conversation kept coming around to me and my…

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Obsession, Regret, Anger, Projection: My Latest Breakthrough

    / January 24, 2017 / 13 Comments

    Hot angry tears were rolling down my face as we went back and forth, round and round. It was one of those conversations that needed to happen but was hard for both of…

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  • Pregnancy & Birth,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Being proactive in pregnancy (without being obsessive)

    / October 16, 2015 / 2 Comments

    If you have followed my blog over the years, you know that I struggle with perfectionism, longing for control, obsessive thinking, and trying too hard. I’m a proactive doer. Type A, if you…

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  • Health, Wellness, & Self Care,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist,  Whitespace: one word for 2014,  Writing and blogging

    Waving the white flag: giving up and gaining #whitespace

    / May 29, 2014 / 10 Comments

    Well ladies, I've dropped out of the rat race and I'm waving the white flag of surrender. Do you always have to give up something to gain something? I say yes. But the…

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Another day…another flaw…

    / May 1, 2014 / 8 Comments

    I want to be able to control what people think of me. So I explain. And explain some more. And defend.

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  • Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist,  Writing and blogging

    On Writing Vulnerably ~ Part 1: The Critics

    / December 12, 2013 / 9 Comments

    Because whether I was wrong - or the critic was wrong - coming face to face with my mistakes is what pushes me closer to Jesus.

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  • Allume 2013,  Messy Faith,  Personal and Spiritual Ramblings,  Recovering Perfectionist,  Writing and blogging

    a time to plan intentionally, a time to surrender willingly (more thoughts about Allume)

    / October 9, 2013 / 7 Comments

    So I am glad for the lists, the binder, the checklists, and all of the planning that I have put into this conference. There's a time to plan intentionally and a time to…

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  • Allume 2013,  Beauty in the Mess,  Ezra,  Recovering Perfectionist

    Paint, tote bags, elevator speeches, and learning the same lesson all over again

    / October 7, 2013 / 7 Comments

    And so, if you see me at Allume, I will still be sporting this tote bag. And maybe, just maybe, if I'm really brave - I'll tell you how even though I learn…

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  • Allume 2013,  Recovering Perfectionist

    all the amazing people I want to meet at Allume {in which I rip up my lists and relinquish control}

    / September 25, 2013 / 25 Comments

    Now it's just me and God. No more lists. No more plans. No more subscribing and following and blog stalking. Just some mental quiet over the next four weeks to see what HE…

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